No Bad Dates

The book of dating advice you actually need…

Let’s face it– most dating advice sucks.

And if you’re single, looking, or on the dating scene in any capacity, you’ve probably gotten a lot of it. Between social media, well-meaning friends, and that one aunt who feels like it’s appropriate to ask about your relationship status at every family gathering, it can be challenging to sift through what actually works and what doesn’t.

You’ve probably heard things like:

  • You’ll find it when you aren’t looking for it.
  • Put yourself out there more!
  • You’re just being too picky.
  • Your standards are too low.
  • You’re too needy, you’re scaring them away. Don’t act so desperate.
  • You have to make them believe you need them, other people love to be needed.
  • Just play hard-to-get. Make them want you. Pretend you aren’t that interested.
  • Don’t make it so hard for people to get close to you! Let them know you like them.
  • Be more feminine. Men don’t like masculine, bossy, accomplished women.
  • Be more direct! Act like a bitch and date like one too. 

 

Or maybe, the dating advice you’ve encountered has been tactical– “Don’t text back first.” “Wait two hours before you respond so they think you’re busy.” “Make your dating profile this way…” “Don’t have sex on the first / third / seventeenth date…” “Don’t kiss for 30 days.” And the like.

No Bad Dates is a book of dating advice that transcends the stuff you’re used to hearing. This book doesn’t focus on the tactics of dating and it is 100% free of contradictory, surface-level dating advice… because that stuff doesn’t work. If it did, you wouldn’t be single!

No Bad Dates is about you. It guides you through the foundational stuff of dating, connecting, and creating opportunities for lasting love– from healthy boundaries to self love and clarity to confidence.

Do this for yourself in the name of love!

“This book really helped my mindset around dating! I was able to see dates as information around what I’m looking for and what I’m not. I stopped taking things as personally. I was also more open to just having new male friends vs. needing people to be “the one” what is that anyways? I now have a great supportive boyfriend who is an obvious good choice for me bc I know myself more and I know what I need.”  –Jess Naim

Author and dating & relationship coach, Kari Tumminia, uses a collection of entertaining personal stories, client transformations, and been-there-done-that tough love to empower you to flip the script on dating. Each fun-to-read chapter is paired with powerful, transformational prompts and exercises to help you do the work of rebuilding your dating foundations for more confidence, more clarity, and of course, better results.

For a limited time, when you purchase your own copy of No Bad Dates, you’ll also get access to The Guide, a companion course specifically designed to further support the changes you’re making in the book, at no cost!

Read this book!

“It’s witty, well-written, honest, accurate, with extremely helpful instructions. I’ve been helping people clear their emotional baggage for over 30 years and I’m going to buy at least a case of these to give to my clients. Kari weaves through personal life stories where you don’t know if you should laugh or cry – and gives clear, proven instructions on how to truly be happy in finding the person you want to spend your life with and how to love and respect yourself in the process (because that’s usually the hardest part.)” –Karin Davidson, CHT, EFTinternational Trustee

It’s so good!

“If you’re single or dating, get this book. It’s so good and so eyeopening.” –R.M.

Holy Smokes!

“All I can say is … Holy smokes! If just the first two chapters are any indication of what’s ahead, WOW!” –G.H.